Most parents dread discussing puberty and sex with their children. Many are happy to leave the teaching to health class at school but we all know that what we learn at school on this subject can be inaccurate and imcomplete. So... what's a parent to do?
First, I would recommend starting early. Teaching is an ongoing process not just one conversation when they get older. When young children ask questions about their body or yours answer honestly and simply. Use correct names for body parts. Your answer should be based on their level of understanding. As they get older become more detailed.
Second, I would be cautious about what they are seeing in the media. Make sure what they are watching on tv, YouTube, and movies are age appropriate. When they do see things in the media or if their favorite teen pop star is pregnant it is a great time to continue your discussion of sexuality. Ask your child questions such as "What do you think?" or "What other choices could they have made?"
Third, provide accurate written or online material for your child. This is especially important for the teen that does not want to talk about this subject. Read what you give them first and then provide it to them quietly so they can read it without the whole family knowing it.
Here is a link for parents of girls. There is also a Q and A for Girls on this website.
http://www.healthychats.com/?MomQnA
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