Having a sense of purpose has been shown to increase happiness and longevity. I feel that with the rise of screen time and social isolation from the pandemic many of us have lost our sense of purpose. Since it is the start of summer our kids have now lost their primary "job" which is learning and school. Here are some ideas to help them find a sense of purpose over the summer.
1. Get a job or a volunteer position
2. Learn a new skill such as cooking, crafting, coding, a new language, or sport. There are so many online courses available these days.
3. Find a neighbor, friend, or family member who needs a kind act or some help. Mow their yard, bake them cookies, mail them art work or a homemade card, or visit/Facetime with them.
4. Ask them to help. Instead of calling it chores try to frame it as a way to help the family. (this works better when they are younger and more interested in helping -- but if you start early it is easier when they get older) Have your teen who is driving pick up things from the store for you. Put the kids in charge of decorating before a party. Have them help keep the yard picked up /neat or sweep the pool (teens) so that it is ready to go when they want to play outside. Have them put together your most recent IKEA purchase.
5. Put their crazy good internet skills to use. Give them something to research. How to fix the flat tires on the bikes in the garage and list what supplies are needed. (and then fix it together). Have them find a new recipe or restaurant for the family to try. (or for them to cook). If you are going on a trip have the research things to do in the area (give them a budget). Need a new appliance? Have them figure out the best brand and price. I've discovered my kids are superb at finding the best deal on things!
6. Get involved in a new group. Book club, religious group (vacation bible school), sport, or makers group.
Here's to a fun summer!
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